Say Hello to the Bad Guy
"You can do a million things right, and never get rewarded...do one thing wrong, and you're the bad guy"--Me
This is just another one of those things I notice on a yearly basis that bothers me, maybe you can relate.
Some people need negativity in their lives, like, literally need it. They need it to help them move forward, if they don't have it, they'll stay in the same spot, they wont grow. So, because some people don't have it...they create it. They turn the people who have been on their side, against them in their minds, and they use it to help them move forward, and to other people on the outside looking in, it makes them look at that person as being: strong, etc. etc. I notice it a lot, because I've been on the receiving end of it, on more than one occasion. Its a sad thing to see and come to realize, but, its happened so many times to me, that, I've just accepted it and I'm happy that person is taking the necessary steps to make themselves happy, even if it means me being hurt. For the longest time when I prayed at night and in the morning, I asked God to bless all my friends, help them be happy, even if it means me being hurt. Sometimes it gets to me, because a couple of the people I know who have done it, are still sort of around, and they're just bitter toward me for no reason. I sit back and start to think what could I have done to this person over the years that would cause this, which is basically nothing compared to how much other people have hurt them, then I snap back to reality and realize this person or these individuals are bitter toward me because they have to be. Whatever the reason may be, in some cases, you can tell its cause that person still has feelings for you and they don't want to because its not going anywhere, so they feel they have to force themselves to get over you, in other cases, that person seems to be in a bad mental state, so they tend to create something out of nothing, but it helps them grow, sometimes for the worst though. Have you ever been the bad guy/girl? Ever notice anyone creating drama with their friends or fam for no reason and using it to help them move forward?
I notice alot of people who do it for the attention, not necessarily for progression.
ReplyDeletei've done it but it was for the attention of ALWAYS having a story to tell but i wasnt being mean to ppl, it was more so i was allowing the situation to continue knowing i could just stop it. but then i realized, im that person who always got something going on and its never really nothing good. i had to realize that i was that person and that i need to keep some stuff to my self and it works out. i dont have to worry that ppl can use what they know (from the things that i've personally told them) about me against me.... i just keep thing to myself
ReplyDeletegood @Justi
ReplyDeleteI don't think I've noticed people doing it just for the attention, but it does come with the territory