Let's Go Streaking!!
I'm spontaneous, but overly cautious....lol I know right? It doesn't work for me either. I love being random, doing random things, like getting the Aqua Teen Hunger Force tattooed around my ankle, taking random road trips, and for some reason I want to marry a random woman lol. It's not the typical lifestyle of someone my age, I don't want to drink, have a lot of sex, smoke, and get money. That's so boring. I hate seeing people who just want to get drunk all the time, "my birthday is in 3 weeks, I'm gone get f***** up!! who drinking?!" "what yall doing for Halloween? I'm going to a costume party and getting f***** up!" "St. Patrick's Day is around the corner, I'm not even Irish...but I'm about to get f***** up!!" "my grand mama just died......WE ABOUT TO GET F***** UP AFTER THE FUNERAL!!". lol you know who those people are, they turn every holiday or occasion into an opportunity to get drunk as if they don't or can't do it every weekend. Anyway, back to me. Me being overly cautious really puts my spontaneous-ism and my randomness in a choke hold, I'm sure you've figured that out by now. I'm working on it though, trying not to let all the possible outcomes scare me away from doing something that looks fun. I'm/want to be, that crazy friend that will come up with something to do if you hit me up when you're bored, even if it means getting in the car and driving around til we come up on a place we didn't even know existed. I believe if you have the right state of mind, and the proper funds, the possibilities are endless when it comes to finding something to do. I don't think I have many adventurous friends though, I try to force some of them to get in that mind state, but you know how the saying goes. You can lead cereal into the bowl, but you cant stop it from getting soggy.
I enjoy my own company, I feel like not enough people do that, I'm the type that'll go to dinner and a movie alone and consider it a successful day. I'll probably do the same thing the next day too, minus the dinner, just go to the movies, get me a nice warm Cinnabon soft Pretzel with cream cheese dip, and enjoy a movie! More of us need to embrace being alone or lonely and turn it into a good thing, I'm not saying you should want to be alone always and forever (always and foreverrrrrrrr, each moment with youuuuu, lol ok I'm done) but learn to enjoy being around yourself. It bothers me when some people feel as if they need people around them in order to have fun, or just need someone around them period. That says a lot to me if you feel you need to be with someone or have people around you like that, I think it says a lot about an individual's personality and it plays a role into everything you do.
To me a lot of what we do plays a roll in other things in our life and we never notice it. For example. If you are the type of person who needs company a lot and cant enjoy being with yourself, there's a great chance you don't masturbate, lol I'm dead serious though. I've seen and heard sexually active females tell me that masturbation is disgusting...yeah...think about it....masturbation is more disgusting than having sex lol, and these chicks are boring as heck, always bored, always want company. Buuuut anyway, thats another rant for another day. This went from About Me to About Yall lol, that's the beauty of my rant's, I get off subject, and you love it. I'm gonna put some stuff on the More About Me page for your enjoyment though, that way we can avoid anymore posts like this one lol.--Peace and mo Old Navy Fleece!
I like structure and order. That's just who I am. Spontaneity is just overrated. I don't want to go with the flow, unless I know where it's going and at least three points of exit if something has changed. *shrugs* I do appreciate OTHER people's like/need/quest for adventure though. Just apart of what makes us all so very different.
ReplyDeleteI find that people who need to be around a crowd ALL the time, are usually hiding from some part of themselves. It's indicative of a whole other host of problems, and in general are on my people to be associate's with only. Also, I've been told that because I'm so willing to be alone, and forego their company it makes them feel as if their friendship isn't necessary. Uh, it isn't? So yeah, perhaps this is part of the reason my circle of friends is sooo small. For certain stretches of time, I'm cool with hanging out often, and then there are months.. yes, months that I simply do NOT want to be bothered. It doesn't make me any less of a friend to want time to myself. *shrugs*
I'm hijacking your post.. so I'll stop now.
XoXoXo. - Me
P.S.- Cinnamon Toast Crunch is delicious! I hurry up to eat it before any of it can get soggy though.
I toooootally agree about the "hiding from some part of themselves", i think i meant to bring it up but im always rambling and going off course lol, and i'll be sure to include your brief cinnamon toast crunch review in my review
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